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Louise Hallam's avatar

I am up in arms too Katy. If it makes you feel any better whatsoever I am very angry that people donโ€™t understand things that I have told them nothing about. How very dare they.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

This! x

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Alison Smedley's avatar

I enjoyed reading this thank you. Can I recommend Lidl for blood oranges; I share this need and have sniffed them out!๐ŸŠ

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

Fantastic! Thank you

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Victoria SkyDancer's avatar

Prickly pears are a delicacy when prepared properly, so I'm told. I've not yet worked up the nerve to try one. Maybe that can be a new year's resolution...

It's still middle of winter, so we don't need to go fast yet. Having a tantrum, followed immediately by a nap, sounds like a good plan. Tantrums are our release valves so the pressure cooker doesn't explode!

Good luck on the blood orange search. The mandarins are coming into season here, as they are twice the size now than they were last month.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

Blood oranges are here! Hooray! I have eaten prickly pear somewhere but it was pretty underwhelming. x

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Ruth2Day's avatar

Ahhh, porridge, a simple meal that warms the soul. And then annoys the hell out of you when washing all the gloopy remains from the saucepan!

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

It is so strong, like glue and also Calpol!

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Sarah's avatar

Iโ€™m in a similar place to you I think (although you put it into words more beautifully than I ever could!) - my word for this year is relax. I realised a few days ago that, even though Iโ€™m constantly striving for the things I donโ€™t have, my life right now is about 80% to where I would design my ideal life, so I really need to stop worrying about the 20% and just be grateful for the rest. There is so much to enjoy that Iโ€™m an absolute idiot for missing it!

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

I get that, but it is hard sometimes when that 20% is so ruddy irritating! x

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Sarah's avatar

Totally agree - Iโ€™m having varying degrees of success depending on the day!

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Keris Fox's avatar

Some places call them blush oranges because people are ridiculous. Hope you find some soon.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

delicate souls! I did get some, thank you. x

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Margaret Bennett's avatar

Oh Iโ€™m so with you on the slow. Iโ€™m also hankering after a blood ๐ŸŠ. Bloody slow oranges. A great read.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

Thank you. I tracked some down. I hope you did. x

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June Girvin's avatar

Good luck with it all, Katy.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

Thank you. x

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Ambermoggie's avatar

And me looking for Seville oranges as we are on our last pot of marmalade๐Ÿ˜„

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Nicola Sutherland's avatar

They are nearly here, you can tell it's mid-Jan when you see me looking around the shops all outraged 'but where are the blood oranges?'

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Wendy Varley's avatar

Learning to sit with the discomfort sounds a good aim, Katy. Good luck with it and all the shifts this year will bring. (I've successfully been fending off current anxieties by reading some wonderful Substackery, yours included. Thank you!)

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

It's hard. I have tracked down a few in the past week, most good, but there were a couple of stinkers and it is so disappointing.

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Katy Wheatley's avatar

It is a good question to ask, as long as you're prepared for what the answer is! x

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